Books & journals

Books & journals for reflection.

Explore reflective nonfiction, poetry, daily affirmations, guided journals, and a practical guide to anger. Each is a standalone purchase; membership is not required.

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Daily affirmations & personal inspiration

A daily affirmation book.
A practice for every year.

Soft Man 365: A Year of Emotional Reclamation

Rooted in LaShawn’s poetry and perspective, Soft Man 365 makes room for vulnerability, boundaries, faith, accountability, and joy. For men, or really anyone reclaiming their emotional lives.

One dated affirmation from January 1 through December 31, plus a February 29 bonus. Begin on any date. Return next year. There is no deadline for becoming yourself.

By LaShawn · Physical book

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A standalone book, separate from the Soft Man Era Journals and the membership. See Amazon for current editions and availability.

Reflective nonfiction

Step Into It

The Courage to Live Authentically and on Your Own Terms

Recognizing your patterns matters, but recognition alone does not change your life. At some point, what you know has to become what you choose.

LaShawn explores self-definition, discernment, integrity, and growth, with Before You Step Into It reflection questions at the end of each chapter.

By LaShawn · Paperback and Kindle

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A standalone book, purchased separately from membership. Choose your edition and review current pricing on Amazon.

A pocket guide for emotional reflection

In case you’re
feeling angry.

Soft Guide: In Case You’re Feeling Angry

Anger changes your breath, your heartbeat, your posture, and your voice. This pocket-sized guide meets you in the moment with seven reset rituals you can do anywhere, then helps you carry the lesson forward through the 3 A’s: Awareness, Accountability, and Adjustment.

Real-life practices cover work, relationships, friendships, public spaces, and time alone, with daily and weekly reflection pages.

Paperback · 32 pages

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$7.99 USD · Digital PDF · 33 pages

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For the Gumroad digital PDF, review the Soft Man refund policy before purchasing. Amazon paperback orders follow Amazon's returns process.

Choose a physical paperback or a digital PDF for phone, tablet, or home printing. See Amazon for current paperback pricing. For personal reflection, not a substitute for professional care.

Where the writing began

The Unspoken, Now Written

A collection of poems by LaShawn on grief, betrayal, family, and healing. Explore the writing behind Soft Man’s beginnings.

By LaShawn · Poetry collection

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Guided journals

Soft Man Era Journal

Choose your cover and check-in count. These 6 × 9-inch physical journals offer space to name emotions, reflect on your responses, and set intentions.

Soft Man Era

Earthy and Earthy Elegance each include 30 two-page daily check-ins. Minimalist includes 35. Use the pages at your own pace; these counts are not a promise of a 90-day program. See each Amazon listing for its price and edition details.

Inside the Earthy Edition

Preview a daily journal spread.

See the actual prompts and writing space before choosing your journal. This spread is from the Earthy Edition production proof; check-in counts vary by edition.