Soft Man Membership · Enrollment open
A reflection community with four guided resources and six private discussion spaces. Explore masculinity, emotions, relationships, identity, grief, and progress without having to perform or have all the answers.
$15 USD/month. Renews automatically until canceled. No free trial.
Begin with a welcome guide to masculinity, emotional intelligence, empathy, fear, and shame. Then use three separate exercises to explore beliefs beneath your reactions, recognize a boundary, and acknowledge progress. Type or print, and keep your answers private if you choose.
Six private spaces make room for questions, shared perspectives, and disagreement without degradation. Read quietly or join in. This is ongoing access to a community, not a one-time workbook purchase.
LaShawn plans to share at least one member video each month, alongside participation in the discussions. A welcome video is also planned. This describes the intended rhythm, not an existing video archive or a promise of an immediate answer, a reply to every post, or private coaching.
A look inside
Read a sample page from the welcome guide, then consider the kind of question you could explore with other members.
Do we want men to be vulnerable, or only vulnerable in ways that make everyone else comfortable?
Illustrative discussion prompt from Soft Man's approved question bank, not a screenshot of member activity. No member names, answers, or private posts are shown.
Read quietly or contribute when you choose. Disagree with the idea if you do. Explain your position. Leave people's dignity intact.
How we show up
You can curse. You can be direct, disagree, ask hard questions, and follow up. The boundary is degradation, not profanity.
Racism, homophobia, transphobia, ageism, misogyny, ableism, threats, harassment, and other identity-based hate have no place here. Disagreement is welcome. Humiliation is not.
Follow-up questions are welcome, but nobody owes the group personal details or continued engagement. Respect someone’s decision not to answer.
Do not shame someone for addiction, recovery, or mental-health struggles. Do not blame survivors of abuse or sexual assault, demand details, or use someone’s family background against them.
Someone can talk about prejudice they grew up around without endorsing it. Make room for accountability and change without turning their history into an insult.
Faith, doubt, religious harm, and disagreement can be discussed without mocking or talking down to people for their beliefs or lack of belief.
Do not share another member’s stories or identifying information outside the forum without their permission. Members-only access is not a guarantee of confidentiality.
Join for access to all four member resources and six private discussion spaces. Review the plan and enroll securely through Podia.
Continue to paid membership · $15/monthOpens the paid plan at Podia checkout. A free account or email signup does not include these member resources or private spaces.
Membership billing: $15 USD is due at signup, then monthly until canceled. No free trial. Review the Soft Man refund policy and the terms at checkout before joining.
Separate offers: books, journals, all Gold Star formats, affirmation cards, wall prints, the anger guide, mentorship, and KORVELL programs are separate. This membership does not include private coaching.
Support stays free. The community is not therapy, medical treatment, crisis care, or a continuously monitored service. Our free mental-health and addiction resources remain available without joining.